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sermon-based study guide

This guide is designed to guide a group discussion around the weekend sermon. You can also use this as an individual, but we highly recommend finding a friend and inviting them to discuss with you. Menlo Church has Life Groups meeting in-person and online using these guides. We’d love to help you find a group.
What you will find in this guide: A discussion guide for groups and individuals. If you are using this as an individual be sure to engage with each question in a journal or simply in your mind as you prayerfully consider what you heard in the sermon and seek to discover what God is inviting you to know and do.

2026-05-02 | Sermon Study Guide | Digital Thorns

Sermon Study Guide | Sermon: Digital Thorns
Scripture: Luke 8:4-15 | Date: May 2, 2026

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CONNECT - “A Personal Reflection”

This section is designed to help you relate personally to the theme of the sermon. It encourages you to reflect on your own life experiences and how they connect to the message.

Think about a time when distraction caused you to miss what was really happening in front of you. Maybe it was a conversation, a moment with your family, a quiet opportunity with God, or someone who needed your attention. What do you think your phone or other distractions were offering you at that moment, and what might they have been keeping you from noticing? Share with your group

ENGAGE - “Exploring the Scripture”

This section invites you to dive into the biblical passage, discuss its meaning, and apply it to your life through thoughtful questions.

Read Luke 8:4-15 as a group and discuss:

  • The message described our phones as “digital thorns” that can choke out the fruit God wants to grow in our lives. Where do you see the worries of life, the pleasures of life, or the deceitfulness of wealth showing up most often through your phone or other devices?

  • Jesus says the seed is the Word of God. What is one area of your life where you sense God has planted something good, but distraction may be threatening its growth?

  • Consider the idea that thorns usually do not kill instantly; they choke slowly. What makes distractions so easy to underestimate? Can you share a time where you found this to be true in your own life?

  • The message named three things digital thorns can choke out: joy, presence, and truth. Which of those feels most vulnerable in your life right now? Why?

  • Read Luke 8:15 again. What do you think it looks like to “hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop” in a world full of digital noise?

APPLY - “Putting the Scriptures into Action”

This section challenges us to take what we’ve learned and implement it in practical ways in our daily lives.

  • This week, where is one place you can practice not bringing “thorns to a fruit party”? Consider a meal, a walk, a date night, a car ride, a quiet time, or a conversation.

  • The message challenged Jesus followers to look different by putting phones away in lines and at restaurants. What would feel uncomfortable about that for you, and what might become possible if you tried it?

  • What is one daily rhythm you could create to spend intentional time apart from your phone?

  • Think of one person in your life who may be carrying more pain than you realize. How could you slow down, look up, ask one more question, or listen a little longer this week?

  • Before your group ends, choose one simple phrase or reminder you can use this week: “Don’t bring thorns to a fruit party,” or “Before they attack, I must prune the thorns back.”

  • Embrace the heart of Jesus for healing and invite a friend to attend Alpha with you.

PRAY - “Seeking God’s Guidance”

This section offers a short prayer to help us center our hearts and invite God to work in our lives through his scripture.

God, thank you for planting your word in our lives and for inviting us into a life that is fruitful, present, and full of love.  Help us notice the thorns, digital or otherwise, that may be choking out joy, presence, truth, and compassion.

Give us the courage to prune back distractions before they take root, and
teach us to live differently, look different, and love differently. Slow us down enough to see the people around us the way Jesus sees them. Make our lives good soil for your grace. Amen.

If you have feedback on this guide or ideas that would help your group engage more deeply, we’d love to hear from you. 

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